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Skill one

Be the adult they tell


Safety starts before the crisis. A child who expects blame will hand you half the story, and half a story is not enough to keep anyone safe.

You will practise the first four sentences of a disclosure, three times, with feedback.

About 7 minutes · Skill 1 of 5 · your place is saved as you go

What this teaches

By the end of this chapter.


  • You can answer the question a child is really asking, which is whether telling you is safe.
  • You can make a confidentiality promise you are able to keep.
  • You can receive a late disclosure without making the delay the subject.

About 7 minutes of practice · your place is saved as you go

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